The Theory of Transperancy
I think everyone has a level of transperancy. You are EXACTLY the way you want people to see you, and how much of you you want seen. so for all the "victims of life" out there.. that feel their misunderstood, you'll be interested to read this. If you wanted to act perfectly to keep up pretences, you could. But sometimes you want someone to know you're lying, it's weird... it's like inviting someone to discover you. Every single person in the world has the capacity to be a PERFECT liar (or actor/actress). no joke. But half the time, nobody wants to be that secretive. You can be an open book, or closed. you might not notice it, but your subconcious is doing it. There is no person out there who's "figured" you out. That's bullshit. simply put,
you let them, or you wanted them to. you probably even lied deliberately, but just transparently enough for them to figure it out. That way you grow a bond, and they feel like they "understand" you..... it's kinda like giving them an emotional cookie. they get to feel all smart and intuitive. Yes.. YOU'VE ALL DONE IT, DON'T DENY IT. On the other hand if you have a friend or boyfriend/girlfriend that just doesn't get you, dont' get frustrated with them, it's because you don't want them to get you, it might be on a subconcious level, take the time to think about it. It can't possibly be their fault that they don't get you when you've set your transparency level to Zero.
Honest. We show people what we want. It's all a matter of transparency.
Have you noticed how transparent YOU CHOOSE to be with different people?
i have.
