I've realized recently that the majority of girls will never be satisfied with what a guy has to offer no matter what he shows of his personality. I had hopes to write this theory as a unisex theory, but unfortunately i don't know if it's the same thing for the opposite sex. Maybe a guy can fill me in on whether it's true or not.
This is the theory/realization i've come to: If a guy wants to get a girl all he has to do is be upfront about his behavior no matter how shady it may be, ESPECIALLY if it's shady.
Unfortunately girls are the kinds of creatures that are never satisfied with anything. I'm speaking ofcourse as for the majority of the female species. If a guy appears to be a good guy (whether he really is a good guy or he's just acting like one) a girl will most likely dig and dig for what's going on in the back. Thinking things like "there's no way he's a good guy, there must be something wrong". Even if the girl doesn't actually DIG.. when he performs one act of misdemeanor, she'll just feel as if she saw it coming.
On the other hand.. if a man is upfront about all his indiscretions and negative behaviors, the girl will STILL dig. it's like a sickness. but this time she won't dig for the shady stuff, she'll start digging for the "good guy". thinking things like "oh he acts like an ass, but i know under that he's a really good guy". It's like a girl always expects a guy to NOT be true about his nature or character to them. It's like some lie that's been drilled into our minds for centuries that guys never show their true colors to girls, which is a fact that nobody has bothered to find out if it's real or try to disprove after all this time or even correct. So the girls always think the opposite! it's weird but cool in some ways because it's so predictable of women.
my advice for guys.. be upfront about every bad thing about you. for some reason, girls wanna always feel like they've figured you out and they found the secret. and it's usually the OPPOSITE of whatever it is you appear on the outside.
I don't know if this one really counts as a theory, maybe i just feel like pointing this fact out to the women of the world so they can stop being such dumbasses. Sorry girls.... it's for your own good! I'm sure all of you have at least one or two female friends who you see this behavior in.
Happy hunting boys and girls!
