As i finished the last theory.. this one sprung to mind and i just had to write it.
Theory of Men's Taste.
This is just to let girls know to stop trying to change their personality to suit guys and to grab their attentions.
Girls, you know how guys always make it a point to say what kind of girls they like? "i like girls who are classy" "i like girls who take charge".. blah blah blah.
what is most likely the case here is that they're subconsciously describing a girl they;'re already interested in or have a crush on or past girlfriends... something like that.
cause i'm here to tell you that guys don't know what they want.. and in the end.. they'll LIKE you no matter what kind of character you have. Cause let's say they do like a girl that takes charge. If they come across a girl they like, they'll say that's cool.
but if a girl rubs them the wrong way, but she's the type that takes charge.. it will no longer be seen as an admirable quality. more it'll be "she's so bossy.. she's so aggressive"
same thing with being quiet and reserved. If a guy likes the timid innocent flower type... if a girl tries to become that, but he just doesn't take to her anyways.. he'll just see her as being too quiet and reserved and boring.
it's a losing situation for girls anyways.. there is absolutely no way for you to conform the way you act so that it matches the kind of girl that a guy likes. what you'll find though, is that if you just be yourself.. and stop trying so hard to fit into something. He'll like who you are.. because who you are and how confident you are and comfortable you are with your own personality is REALLY what attracts the guys. and suddenly you'll find that HIS taste, will conform to fit with what your character is. Men are indecisive. They think they know what they want.. i really believe they think that.
Then again.. maybe i just think i know what i'm talking about.. but the pattern of how men think is just too obvious to ignore.
love yourselves.. and they'll adore you.
guys.. stop listing what you think you like. life's full of surprises and even what you think you like might change.
love you all
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