I've heard many times people compare the way people dance, to the way they are in bed. I thought that was interesting enough for me to take a further look in to it and actually THINK about it. this is what i came up with.
I probably need to think about this more to get this theory completely clear, but i hope i didn't confuse anyone. it's a bit messy.
Theory of Dance
The way you are when you dance is how you are in life... with your partner or potential partner especially. Now i'm not restricting this simply to the bedroom, although that is part of it, but i also mean in your demeanor. The real you. The part of you that usually no one sees or knows about except your partner.
If you could just for a moment imagine music as a person. Let's USE our imaginations here.
couldn't it maybe kinda be possible that different types of music also reflects different personalities? and brings it out in you?
We all like different kinds of music, some more than others. And our body moves to that music accordingly. Go to any club or dance and see the different ways people are dancing to the same song. some are confident and sexy, others are timid and shy, some are just awkward and keep looking around to who's looking. other's are just in their own world, some like to do a group thing and do what everyone else is doing.
If your partner was Rock music, how you react to it, how your body is.. not necessarily how WELL you dance, but how much you really enjoy the music is who you REALLY are. the way you take in the music and let it control you is in my opinion linked to you psychologically and how you react with someone.
Same with all other types of music. I think dance is truly the time of self-expression, and everyone expresses it better in different ways. some with rock, some with rnb, some with house music. sometimes you'll be stiff, sometimes you'll have your hands up in the air not giving a shit what anyone is looking at. My theory is basically that that person your turn into when you dance, is what you're like in your most PERSONAL level with your partner.
That's the REAL you.
whether you're fun, or conservative, or serious, or very professional, or sexy, or hip with the latest moves.. ... that's the true essence of YOU.
I dont' wanna exaggerate but if i had to take a stab at it.. it would be something like..
if you were very professional while you dance, means you take something seriously, and wanna do it right.
when you dance:
if you're conservative.. means you wanna have fun, but not TOO much.
If you're serious when you dance.. that probably means you have a no nonsense attitude about a lot of things in life too.
If you're sexy... that means you have a very physical attitude in life.
if you're hip, that means you're always into the latest and in tune with the NOW.
if you're fun, that means you don't care about anyone's opinion and you wanna make the most outta life.
if you're in your own world, you probably are the kind of person that looks for someone that makes them feel like they're escaping reality.
if you're eyes are always on your dance partner, you're very into pleasing or making contact with a partner
If you're self-concious when you dance, well.. that's kinda obvious. Insecure.
If you simply DON'T dance, you probably don't take too many risks in your life, or rather you choose not to INDULGE yourself in life or getting too personal.
then again, this is my opinion.
some people are a combination, and to different musics. different music brings out different parts in people.. just like other people do... for example the company you keep, and the part of your personality that comes out when with different people.
yes i have to go back to the fact about how you'd be in bed. A lot of what goes on in the bedroom is how your body responds to the other person, and how they respond to you. Kinda like how you respond to certain music and beats and how receptive you are. Music goes in to you, takes over you.. and your body responds...like someone could. so yes, in THIS case, i woudl say the better dancer you are, no matter what kind of song, as long as you get someone who matches you, you'll
be great together in bed.
I bet you'll be looking quite differently at people in the club now huh?
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