I'm pretty sure that in one episode of desperate housewives they kinda talked about this subject, ... but i just realized that after i started thinking about it these last couple of days.
it's about something so simple yet unrivaled when it comes to expressing emotions. I really don't think there's anything more powerful than a kiss.
Theory of the Kiss
Kisses are themselves a different language. They are THAT powerful that they don't need words. I'd like to think of the lips as the gateway to the person. When you kiss someone, on the lips you're forming a connection together. to combine yourselves to one another. you're trying to be whole. to share yourself.
What is it about a kiss?
Is it magic? Is there a touch of something heavenly from god that he personally puts at our disposal in our lips to share with other people? it has to be.. it's more powerful than anything i've ever seen. The amount of different emotions it stirs up, just by experiencing it, or seeing it is insane. it's everything, it's love, it's promises, it's lies too.. it's like the biggest proof someone could get to reassure their heart yet at the same time the biggest lie they might get in their life. I've seen people get weak in the knees and get dizzy from a kiss, i've seen people travel far distances just for a kiss, and i've seen people's hearts break.. just from a kiss..
And i'm talking about all kisses, there's something so personal and forceful about a kiss i really don't think it's that easy to deny. Yes sometimes a kiss might be meaningless, if you're not receiving it completely, like when someone kisses you on a cheek. But even the cheek kiss means something. some of the sweetest most meaningful kisses are the innocent ones on the cheek, forehead, or hand even. like a cute baby that you can't help but kiss repeatedly on the cheek. why? is it just cause those cheeks are just so yummy? or cause you can't help but smother that person with your love. that's what you're doing with your mouth, you're trying to share yourself with them.
People will have sex and still not be emotionally connected if they don't kiss. There is a BIG difference when you're intimate with someone and kiss them, and when you don't. It tells a lot of how much of yourself you're sharing. it tells just how much of yourself you're willing to give to them.
you can tell SO much from a kiss. it's true, kisses don't lie. EVER. unless you want them to lie..
fake kisses are easy to spot. you CANNOT fake the emotions in a kiss, unless the person you're kissing is that easily tricked. which in most cases there are. sometimes people just want to be kissed, they want to be lied to..
yes the kiss is THAT powerful that even though when it's a sham, it's still strong enough to do the job. to fullfill that longing someone might have inside them. it's still forceful enough that the recipient wouldn't care whether it's a lie or not.
Goodbye kisses are the worst. Heart wrenching even. all the sadness in the world could fit into that kiss.. where words aren't necessary, you could just hear it saying "i don't want to be away from you, stay, don't go, you're breaking my heart, don't do this... i'll love you forever"... that kiss itself could break your heart into billions of pieces.
The kisses among friends are sweet, and innocent..i'm not talking about those day to day "hi bye" kisses.. i'm talking about like when you're best friend is so sad and thinks the whole world hates them, and you place a very delicate kiss on their cheek. that means a lot. you might not think it doesn't. but it does. even the ones you give for example after seeing them after so long... the kiss in itself says just how much you missed them.
Then there's the "falling in love" kisses... where every moment is enjoyed.. every motion of the lips.....whether on the lips or any other part of the body. you're lips start talking this other language where they express to the other person's lips and skin just HOW much they love you and adore you. you could close your eyes and practically hear these make believe voices say "i love you, you're precious to me, you're my everything"... that's the language of kissing. kissing is an action that goes back and forth. just like speech. and how your lips respond to one another, that could be like talking.. right?
or the passionate kisses.. the ones so filled with hunger your lips won't have TIME to actually talk.. but again, close your eyes and listen and you'll hear it.. "i want you.. i need you.. i have to have you... NOW" The force especially in this kind of kiss is definitely unrivaled by any other form of expression, even words. there's so many other kisses, the "i'm sorry" kisses, "i love you forever", "i forgive you", "reassuring" kisses or even "motherly love"... .. why else do mothers kiss your booboo when you get hurt? isn't it in some kind of belief that a kiss has as little magic in it? that'll make it better? that's what a mother does right, she gives her love to take care of her children.
people today take kisses too lightly. degrading their value even. kisses are one of the most powerful tools that god has given us and other than abusing it, we've taken it for granted. you can tell anyone almost anything by kissing them...
believe me your lips will still be doing the talking, just not the way you think. next time someone kisses you, or you kiss them, no matter what kind of kiss it is.. partner, family or friend... listen closely and i PROMISE you you'll hear exactly what they're trying to tell you.
go share yourself with someone... right now, tell them something that you don't wanna say using words
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